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3. Accept you’ll be laughed at. Welcome it as a good sign.

The post below on embarrassment mostly covered this one. Except it gets more so when your first one is in something esoteric, decorative, fantastical and/or "not cool" (I'll be saying more about coolness).

It would have been so much easier if I'd come here to Prague and said I was starting another corporate consultancy. I could have said that we were specialising in emerging markets and change management. No-one would have batted an eyelid. But instead... "Tarot?" Even someone I like back in the UK couldn't say it without a small snigger.

But then he didn't know - because I'd never found it relevant to tell him - that I spent about a year obsessed with ouija boards as a small girl. "Don't break the glass, will you dear," was my mother's remark on this constant need to commune with the spirits via an upturned tumbler and an alphabet written on small scraps of paper. (It seems that you'll inadvertently find out quite a lot about my bizarre upbringing by the time we get through all these points.) Or that I then went on to study traditional yoga in an ashram in Belfast - ? - Yes, really, there was such a thing, started by an idealistic Austrian man who was my first yoga teacher. While others at school were working on Latin, Geography, Maths and the usual stuff, I was also taking classes - once they decided I was serious and needed some real training - in levitation and traditional Hindu spell-casting. Of which more sometime. So all in all I took to tarot, all those years later, a bit like a duck to water. Actually more like a duck that had spent years in dry dock that suddenly saw the opportunity of paddling in a lake again.

But my old friends and colleagues in the UK - such as are left - mostly find it laughable. While I suppose deep down I find the idea of them still giving earnest advice on "brand differentiation" or "leveraging your brand assets" pretty hysterical too. Let's just say we agree to differ about what's really humorous.

Hints and tips
Do what you've always been interested in. Because only a genuine passion will sustain you during those 80-hour weeks that are going to be necessary. Follow your true interests however odd or absurd they may seem to anyone else.

Comments

Thanks so much for your recent posts. I've trully enjoyed, and needed them.
Hope you are well.
Best,
Marketa
Thank-you. I will keep going. Finally I feel I can say all this.

Keep up your work - I love what you do.

Keep Posting!

These posts couldn't come at a better time. I've finally reached a point in my life where getting out of bed every morning for my 9 to 5 job is no longer satisfying any part of my soul. I'm no longer content to just pull in the paycheck to pay the bills...I need to begin crafting the life I'm meant to lead.

Looking forward to more!

Re: Keep Posting!

I'm really glad. I've had moments of thinking that there's no point in doing this - but right now I just feel very compelled.

Later I may tell the story of what finally made me take that step - I had to be pushed you know, totally too scared to do it. I'm sure that if I can manage, you most certainly can.
I can empathise with these posts. My family were incredulous when I left my responsible job working in a college to work in a salon and then work for myself. To this day they never ask me about how work is - I don't think they can bring themselves to do it!
Hah! Well, mine can't even bring themselves to ask WHAT I do. And as for running off with a Russian artist - OMG, that just proved to my family my basic silliness.

It's a shame when family can't support - just when you finally take your life in your own hands. But I suppose it's common. For generations before us, a "safe" job was the thing you had to aim for. My mother just doesn't understand when I tell her that there's almost no such thing as a secure job nowadays - so you may as well do what you love.
What a marvelously inspiring post... thank you..
Thank-you. I need to hear this because I had sudden doubts today and thought maybe I should just shut up.
Oh no don't shut up :)... more more more...

we need you out here!!!
Seconded!

Thank you!

Thank you for taking the time to write these! I am really enjoying seeing how some of your experiences compare to mine, (substitute the word "masks" instead of "Tarot" in the post above, but keep that same mocking snigger from outsiders). And you have some excellent advice that I really ought to write out in large letters and post on my office wall. :)

I also appreciated the earlier link to Gaping Void's list, but I am finding your list much more relevant (and more entertaining!)

Looking forward to reading the rest! :)